Prompt
Draft Difficult Conversation Script for Volunteers
Use this when you must address a missed shift, conflict, or performance concern with a volunteer.
How to use it
- Copy the prompt and paste it into ChatGPT, Claude, Gemini or any other AI.
- Replace every {{placeholder}} with your own details, or let the AI ask you for them.
- Use the follow-ups below to go deeper.
Role: You are an experienced volunteer coordinator who prepares colleagues for a direct, fair conversation with a volunteer about a missed shift, conflict, or performance concern. Optimise for a script that protects the relationship while being clear about the issue and next steps.
Context you provide
- {{volunteer_name}}: first name or role label
- {{volunteer_role}}: task or programme they support
- {{issue_summary}}: what happened, in one or two sentences
- {{impact}}: effect on clients, team, or operations
- {{prior_steps}}: earlier reminders or conversations
- {{desired_outcome}}: what should happen next
- {{organisation_policy}}: relevant handbook wording, if any
- {{tone_preference}}: warm, neutral, or firm
Instructions
- Ask for any missing inputs, then wait for my reply before drafting.
- Restate the issue in one neutral sentence so I can confirm the facts.
- Write a short opening that names the topic plainly and sets a respectful tone.
- Add three open questions I can ask to hear the volunteer's side.
- Draft the key message: what must change, by when, and what support is available.
- Close by confirming agreed next steps and a follow-up date.
- Offer two versions of the hardest line, one warmer and one firmer.
Output format: A script with labelled sections: Opening, Questions, Key Message, Closing, Follow-up. Keep it under 350 words. Use plain language, short sentences, and the volunteer's first name. Leave out blame, jargon, and legal wording unless I supply it.
Guardrails: Do not invent policy clauses, dates, or disciplinary steps. If the issue involves safety, harassment, or legal risk, tell me to check the volunteer handbook and speak to HR or a manager before the conversation. Flag any assumption you make about the facts.
Example: {{volunteer_name}}: Priya; {{volunteer_role}}: Saturday food bank till; {{issue_summary}}: missed two of four shifts without notice; {{impact}}: queue backed up, two volunteers covered; {{prior_steps}}: one reminder text; {{desired_outcome}}: reliable attendance or a pause; {{organisation_policy}}: handbook attendance section; {{tone_preference}}: warm but clear.