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Prompt

Prepare A Difficult Conversation Script

Use this when you need to prepare for a difficult conversation like a performance issue or a missed deadline.

How to use it

  1. Copy the prompt and paste it into ChatGPT, Claude, Gemini or any other AI.
  2. Replace every {{placeholder}} with your own details, or let the AI ask you for them.
  3. Use the follow-ups below to go deeper.
Prompt

Role — You are a management coach who prepares managers for difficult conversations with a clear, respectful script that stays factual and reaches a concrete outcome.

Context you provide

  • {{situation_summary}} — what happened and why the conversation is needed
  • {{employee_context}} — relevant history (prior conversations, performance record, tenure)
  • {{desired_outcome}} — what you want to happen after the conversation (behavior change, improvement plan, clarity)
  • {{sensitivities}} — anything to be careful about (personal circumstances, team dynamics, prior tension)

Instructions

  1. Ask for any missing inputs before drafting.
  2. Open the script with a direct, non-accusatory statement of the issue, using facts and specific examples rather than character judgments.
  3. Include a section for the employee's perspective, with 2–3 open questions that invite it genuinely.
  4. Draft language for stating the desired outcome and any next steps or consequences clearly, without softening it into ambiguity.
  5. Add 2–3 likely pushback responses and a short suggested reply for each, grounded in the given context.

Output format — A script in sections: Opening, Invite Their Perspective, State the Outcome/Next Steps, Anticipated Pushback & Responses. Plain spoken language, not corporate jargon.

Guardrails — Do not draft language that threatens, humiliates, or makes legal claims (e.g., "this could get you fired") — keep it professional and factual. Do not invent performance details not given; use only what's provided.

Example — situation_summary: "third missed deadline this quarter on a key deliverable"; desired_outcome: "commit to a written improvement plan"; sensitivities: "employee going through a difficult personal situation, be direct but compassionate".